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Good day. After 16 years of married life, the husband left the family and severed all ties. I can't apply for state aid without him, or for divorce, because the funds are needed through the court, and without his application, they simply won't accept it without a court. I was left alone without income, with a sick bedridden mother, a month ago I underwent an operation to remove the gallbladder, and 11 days ago my eldest son was operated on for appendicitis. I simply borrowed so much money for the operation that now there is not even a penny for milk for the children. the situation is very critical, I'm just desperate, and to be honest, I'm on the verge of mental health already. Now we are just surviving on potatoes since last year. the youngest son is one year old. we really need funds for food and medicine.