I am a mother of a large family. We have a daughter, Daria, who is 9, and twins, daughter Milana and son Kiril, who are 1 year 7 months old. My husband lost his job and only has odd jobs. My ex-husband does not pay child support for my eldest daughter; 2 weeks ago I took him to court, because he has also been left without work and pays nothing at all. And twins need a lot; you cannot get by on social benefits and odd jobs. Baby food, diapers, everything has to be bought, and utilities and the apartment rent take a great deal. Wishing you peaceful skies above your head.